Personality assessments are typically broken into three distinct categories:
- Styles: A manner of doing something.
- Types: A category of people or things having common characteristics.
- Behaviors: The way in which one acts or conducts oneself, especially toward
other people or situations.
Inevitably when I have conversations about personality assessments the talk always turns to “styles” or “type” assessments, as these seem to be extremely common these days. In addition, I imagine that you have either heard of, or taken, one of these types of tests yourself: MBTI, DISC, Enneagram to name a few.
In “styles” or “type” assessments, a participant’s scores are calculated and the test categorizes the test taker into various groups by first and secondary characteristics. I recently had a conversation with a woman sitting next to me on a flight from London. Her comment, when talk of “personality tests” came up, was how interesting it is to find out who all the “yellows” in the group are.
Okay… I understand that this may create a feeling of camaraderie for the moment, but I’m not convinced (past the initial “aha – this is fun!”) that a springboard for learning and personal development conversation will take place. Personally, I tend to react to labeling people and placing them in a “box” instead of allowing them to develop their individual strengths and overcome their weaknesses; no matter what color or animal they are.
Please don’t misunderstand me. I have taken a number of “styles” and “type” assessments over the years. While I find them somewhat fascinating and enjoyable, not one “style” or “type” assessment has ever moved me to make any positive improvement in my behavior. Moreover, at times I have even found myself sinking into the “Well, it’s just the way I am…deal with it” mode… which is not really helpful for self-development.
This is why I’m all about assessing behaviors, pure and simple. I believe that treating each person as a unique individual makes it easier to provide the feedback and the opportunity for opening up their potential…no matter what their “style” is.
In my coaching experience when I have clients with low Trust scores, those low scores are based on totally different, and individual, experiences and reactions to their life situation or circumstances. This is where receiving behavioral feedback can help someone identify steps for improvement versus providing them with the excuse of, “I’m just an XYZ - gotta love me.”
Bottom-line: While your “style” or “type” may be fascinating and fun, developing your own (or your
employees’) behaviors will help achieve the most success.